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  • Simplify Everything – Walk on the Middle Road

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    Life and faith get so cluttered sometimes.

    Not that it is a terrible thing, but we can just make things so convoluted and make the waters so muddy that we cannot do anything else but muck around.  With the added weight of layers and layers of complexity, it becomes difficult to walk with agility and purpose.

    Sometimes we just need to simply things.

    And we can do that by walking on the Middle Road.

    The Middle Road is the place where we can come together and walk hand-in-hand with the things that we have in common.  The Middle Road is the ground on which we can focus on just one thing, one way, one road.  The Middle Road is the place where we can make things simple so that we can move forward together.

    Has your life gotten too busy?  Too complex?  Too scattered?  Are you looking at the small things, worried about the peripheral things, and too focused on the things that don’t matter all that much?  Has your life just spun out of control or just slowly gotten away from you?

    Simply everything.  Walk on the Middle Road.

  • The Next Step: Moving Beyond the Coffee Shop Ministry Model

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    Expecting people to just walk right through the doors of the church went out during the 1950’s.

    So then we shifted toward more of a missional mindset which it characterized by one of the most popular forms of ministry today: the coffee shop ministry.  Many churches, missionaries, and people have started a coffee shop in order to minister to those around them.  This has been viewed as the preferred way of doing ministry today.

    But what’s next?

    In the evolution of ministry, what is the next step?   As we get better and better at doing ministry, what is the next step?

    I believe that one big area of ministry that could be the next thing to take hold in many churches is the concept of incarnational ministry.  Granted, people don’t just come waltzing into our churches anymore uninvited.  So we needed something more relational.  And, yes, starting a coffee shop ministry is definitely a good way to be relational with people.  For sure.  But what is the next step after that?  I believe we need to take the next step into relational ministry and not just create ways to impact certain components of people’s lives.  We need to infuse ourselves into their lives just like Jesus did for us when He came to earth.  We need to commit to incarnational ministry: living near people, plugging in with our neighborhoods, getting involved with people’s lives when they are home and in their community.

    Being “with them” and “dwelling among them” like Jesus did is the next step on the ladder of relationships.  It allows you to get to know someone at such a deep level.  It brings in an element of trust.  It maintains that you are willing to do anything – even cutting into your normal, home life – to minister to someone.  Incarnational ministry.

    Are you ready for the next step?  Are you ready to go beyond the coffee shop?  Are you ready to be more relational?

    Also, what do you think?  Could this be the next evolution in the way that we do some of our ministries?

    I would LOVE to hear some thoughts from fellow sojourners on The Middle Road.

  • How Far Does This Jesus Stuff Go?

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    We have all heard the phrase “WWJD – What Would Jesus Do?”, right?  Of course we have.  And for good reason.  Jesus is the Son of God.  We are commanded to “walk like Jesus did”.  The Bible encourages us to “love like Jesus”.  We are supposed to do our best to be like Jesus Christ.

    But how far does that go?

    If you are a “good” Christian (I am using generalizations here…), then the “good” Sunday School answer would be that we need to change the whole of our lives to be like Jesus Christ.  But are we really prepared for that?  Should we be?

    When deciding where to live in your town … where would Jesus live?

    When deciding how big of a house to live in … what kind of house would Jesus live in?

    When deciding what type of movies to see… what kind of movies would Jesus see?

    What kind of clothes would Jesus wear?  How did Jesus do ministry to the poor?  How would Jesus vote?  What kind of things would Jesus buy?  What would Jesus eat?

    Really, how far does this whole Jesus-thing go in our lives?

    Granted, we are obviously supposed to do the big, general things from Jesus’ life.  We are called to love like He did and forgive like He did and have compassion like He did and all of that.  Of course.  But do we need to do the other stuff, too?  I mean, Jesus was pretty poor.  Do we need to be poor?  During his years of official ministry, Jesus did not own a house.  Does that mean we cannot own a house?  Really, how far do we take all this stuff?

    Honestly, I do not know.  I am still learning and listening and figuring all of this out with the other people here on the Middle Road.

    But I have realized this lately: We need to look to the life of Jesus as the foundation for our choices, attitudes, actions, perspectives, philosophies, and lifestyles.

    But the question still stands: How far does that go?

  • Incarnational Ministry and the Middle Road

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    I was recently in Nicaragua for a young adult mission trip.  It was an amazing time serving alongside a small local church in this little Central American town.  One night we were able to show the Jesus FILM in a very poor part of town.  Virtually every child in the whole barrio came out to see the film, and many other teens, parents, and other people stood a little ways away and watched, too.  At the end of the night, there were about 20 to 25 kids who came forward to pray and receive Jesus Christ as their Savior.  Praise the Lord!  How great!

    But as I stood there and watched all of this, I thought to myself, “What happens now?”  Our group was working in a different part of the city, and we were leaving in a couple of days.  No one from the church lived close to this neighborhood.  These kids had just accepted Jesus, but who was going to disciple them?  Who was going to help them?  Who was going to be an example for them and lead them?  Who was going to dwell among them and teach them how to live like Jesus?

    Incarnational ministry.  Living out the faith in person.  In order to do this, there has to be proximity.  You cannot practice incarnational ministry if you are not, well, there.  You have to be there.  That is what Jesus did for us.  He couldn’t just tell us what to do from afar.  He came and lived with us.  He dwelled among us.

    Incarnational ministry.  Who is going to do that for these kids in that neighborhood?  Who is going to do that in the neighborhoods where we live?  Are we doing this?

    The Middle Road is all about walking the journey together.  You cannot journey with someone if you are not with them on the Road.  You have to be there with them.  You have to practice that incarnational ministry and walk on the Road with others.

    Are you walking on the Middle Road with others?  Are you practicing incarnational ministry and being with those around you?  What are you doing?

  • Through Love – We Always Have Something in Common

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    I believe that by now all of us know that there are many people who we simply do not connect with.  I mean, there are definitely people that we completely connect with, but there are those people at work, church, in our families, and in our everyday lives who we just do not get along with.

    But can I tell you something?

    There is always something that you can connect with: the things that you both love.

    If you love something and someone else loves the same thing – then that is where you start.  That is where the road begins.  And you have something in common.

    Again, it’s not like you have to be best friends with everyone in the world.   There are just naturally people who you might not connect very well with.  But if you can find something that you both love – then you are set.  That is your connection point.  That is your Middle Road.

    Through love – you can always have something in common.

    And then you can begin walking on that Road together…

  • Our NEED For The Middle Road

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    The Middle Road.

    The place where we can come and walk together.  The opportunity for all of us to find some common ground.  The time when we can look for the unity in the situation, discussion, or event.

    But lately I have shifted my perspective on the concept of the Middle Road.  At the beginning, the Middle Road was a place where people could come together.  It was an opportunity, a possibility.

    But lately I have seen that the Middle Road should not be a possible ideal or a good idea.  The Middle Road – that place where we come together and connect with each other and find common ground so that we can move forward and be effective – is something that we need.

    We need the Middle Road because we absolutely need each other.  We need to connect.  We need to discuss.  We need to walk together.  Truly, we need that.  We need each other.  We need to find common ground.  We need the Middle Road.

    Hopefully we can explore this more soon…

  • What Kind of Coffee Shop Is Your Church?

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    Coffee shops are taking over the world.

    Ok. Not really. But they are everywhere. And they have infiltrated our lives and our culture.

    But that is not a bad thing by any means. A good cup of Joe (or a good cup of Venti Americano half-caf, skinny, with a shot of almond) is a great way to start or finish your busy day. Coffee shops provide a cool place for teens and young adults to hang out with friends. It is a cozy spot for people to read books or the newspaper while sipping on something warm and delicious. Coffee shops are great for conversations, games, friends, and fun. And they also provide an excellent symbolism that reveals an accurate picture of the personality of your church.

    Think about this: if your church was a coffee shop – what kind of coffee shop would it be?

    There are several distinct types of coffee shops in towns around America. Each one of these categories of coffee shops presents a unique form that most every church can relate to. We will take a look at the different types of coffee shops to see the one with which your church most closely identifies.

    Starbucks. On almost every corner in every big city there is a Starbucks. It has taken over the coffee industry with its consistently good drinks, delightful pastries, and infectious culture. It is large and in charge. Starbucks is known for being the business side of coffee; they bring the people in, give them what they want, and run an efficient shop. Maybe your church is a lot like Starbucks. A church that would fit into this mold would be one that provides a very good product to the community. The church is probably a bigger church that markets its programs well and really gets people in the doors. The culture of the church is focused on having things run smoothly and efficiently. The church is definitely personable, but they do it in a very mainstream, corporate type of way. They want to provide a good “product” for their “customers”. This is the Starbucks type of Church.

    Flying M. Every city usually has one of those eclectic and unique coffee shops that attracts the most interesting and diverse group of people. In my town, this coffee shop is called Flying M. They offer a great atmosphere for people to come and talk in as they sit in old chairs and couches while perusing through underground magazines and looking at the local art on the walls. The Flying M is that coffee shop where everyone feels comfortable; it is not too big or too fancy. Maybe your church is a Flying M kind of church. This church offers a down home, local experience for individuals instead of the masses. The Flying M church is a little bit smaller, and they like it that way. It is a church that is great at connecting with people in personal ways. They provide a very relevant culture that focuses holistically on people’s lives, emotions, and passions. This is the Flying M type of church.

    Drive-Thru Java. These drive-thru coffee shacks are all over big cities these days. The one in our town is called Drive-Thru Java. These coffee shops are very unique because they provide a specialized service. They are built for convenience and built for speed. It is an in-and-out coffee shop. They want you to get what you need (that large cup of caffeine to get you through the day!) and get on your way. Drive-Thru Java is a small establishment that sits in the parking lot of a larger store – and it is solely focused on getting you what you need as quickly as possible. There are many churches out there today that operate like Drive-Thru Java. These churches focus on meeting basic spiritual needs of salvation and discipleship. They provide the bare essentials that will keep people going, but they do not provide a place for people to stop and sit and listen and learn. Churches like this offer people quick-fixes for their spiritual lives. They have programs and projects that never go very deep with people, but they sure do get a lot of things done. These churches are always busy – busy, busy, busy. This is the Drive-Thru Java type of church.

    So what coffee shop is your church like? Which one most closely resembles the things that your church does? It is an interesting analogy that might shed a little light onto the personality of your church. Are you a Starbucks type of church that focuses on providing a good product for the masses? Are you a Flying M kind of church that provides a welcoming and personal culture? Are you a Drive-Thru Java church that is super busy with programs and has an in-and-out feel to it?

    Think about coffee shops in your town. Which one would your church be?

    And then think about this – who goes to that coffee shop?

    Alright, all this talk about coffee shop has made me thirsty. I’m gonna go get a chai.

  • The Middle Road

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    We are in a battle. We are in a contest. We are in a war. This is serious. This is for real. There are things that we need to do. There are people that need help. There are things that must be done. There are people that must be reached. There is no time to relax, no time to sit still, no time to waste. There are things to do and people to help in this fight against the devil and fight for the truth of God’s love. We cannot waste time. We must all work together, believe together, love together, and be together in this fight and in this cause. Therefore, in order for us to have the success that we need – we must find our Middle Road.

    The Middle Road. What is that? It is the path that we can all tread on together. In the midst of changes of thought, in the midst of the old ways vs. the new ways, in the midst of innovative spiritual development and emerging means of grace – the Middle Road is a place where we can all come together. Because we need each other. We need to help each other. We need to work with each other if we are going to have the success that we all desire. Also, we are too smart to box ourselves into a corner with our faith and beliefs. We are too wise to completely shut each other out based on technicalities. We are too loving not to give each other a chance and give each other a break. We are too smart for all of that, and we need each other. Where can we meet? We can meet on the Middle Road.

    The Middle Road. The place where we can all come together. The path where all of our different opinions can meet together. The road where we can all join together in this fight and for this faith cause. Beliefs, thoughts, denominations, generations – no matter what it is, we have to combine on this Middle Road…because there is a lot that needs to be done…and it is going to take all of us.