There are some great articles written by some amazing people that speak to this issue of the Middle Road. Here are several key articles that can help you find ways to connect with others on this common road.
Listening in Love by Jan Love – http://day1.org/1108-listening_in_love
Via Media Philosophy: A Wesleyan Theory of Pilgrimage into Deep Truths by L. Bryan Williams
The Intergenerational Church by Chuck Stecker – http://drcstecker.blogspot.com/2008/09/intergenerational-church.html