There are some great books written by some amazing people that speak to this issue of the Middle Road. Here are several key books that can help you find ways to connect with others on this common road.
Via Media Philosophy L. Bryan Williams
The Intergenerational Church: Understanding Congregations from World War II to www.com by Peter Menconi – http://www.amazon.com/Intergenerational-Church-Understanding-Congregations-WWII/dp/0615189164